Yes, I have some beautiful female friends who are also beautiful on the inside; ones whom I respect and value as friends, and...
...now here's the kicker...
...ones whom I DON'T have a crush on or ever wanted to date.
For guys it's hard to be able to say that. Typically, the common idea is that closer friendship always eventually leads to attraction.
However, if you break out of that mold, it helps you to have some really good friendships that otherwise might have gone south eventually. And while it won't get you a girlfriend, it'll probably help you to
be a better boyfriend.
QUOTE(Sir Pimpalot @ Jun 5 2007, 08:29 PM)
Get popular. Play some sports or pull a school prank or something.
I do not recommend trying to become popular. If you don't start off that way, then chances are you'll always be playing "their game." If you don't make the rules, someone else will be there to tell you that you lost, regardless of what happens.
It's much better to play your own game. Circumvent the popularity system by getting friends who are *gasp* more like you.
Sure as hell beats pretending to be someone you're not.
Besides, I'm happy to report that everything changes once you get to college. All bets are off, and for the most part, nobody cares what you did in high school.