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[Anthus]

I was watching Montel this morning, and they were showing these girls that were having sex... What are your thoughts on teen sex?
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Personally, I don't see why it is so wrong... I am not doing it, but its stupid... its totaly natrual, and there is nothing wrong with nature. It is your choice to take that risk, but the odds of actually catching something nasty isn't as near as high as you think it would be. The idiotic people that think they now it all create the image that it is wrong... you know what? use a ****ing condom! Also, people are very hypocritical... They say "dont do it blah blah blah", and yet they distribute condoms, and make them easily accesible...

Dont eat, but we'll put food in front of you... Don't watch TV, but we'll put you in the same room as one...

That is what its like... Dont have sex, but here is a condom...

So, what do you think?

[LinktheMaster]

I don't think teen sex would be that bad... if most teenagers knew who they really want to be with. But, usually teens just have one night stands and unprotected sex, and you know how that ends up. :\ Now, if teens had protected sex and only with one person, it wouldn't be so bad, but unfortunately that's not how it is most of the time.

[ShadowTiger]

Teens Are Stupid If Uninformed.

Teens Are Stupid If Informed.

Smart Teens Don't Have Sex Until They're Married, Or Out Of College.



Teens can be very stupid. They think everything is going to be okay, OR, they just don't think ahead. Obviously, it's going to seem fun. Obviously, it's a new experience. They're both new, .. young, and naive kids, but they don't really look into the long run.

[Mad Dog]

Y'all pretty much know my position on the matter. And go ahead and laugh about what I said, I did.

[Papa]

What if, instead of acquiring these "special privledges" by reaching specified ages, {which makes no sense since reaching a certain age DOES NOT make you any more careful or mature automically}, you could somehow "test out" each year on your birthday and see if your scores reach high enough to prove you mature for such actions as driving, purchasing certain "goods", sex as minor/adult issues, etc.? Does that not sound like a more sensibile approach than the decrepit system we STILL have in place today. But, I've been dreaming of that since I was ten, hehe. Don't know if this really even applies to the topic at all....

Oh, and to be honest with EVERYONE, looking back, I DO wish I had waited. Believe it or not, you CAN AND WILL get bored with sex, no joke. So just be cool and be sure.......

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[Neppy]

Well, I'm not against it, because it's just all up to the people. I'm sure, if I was in the situation, I would jump right in, and have my fun. So, if I would go ahead and do it, I don't blame anyone else for going ahead and having sex. But, protection is smart. One of my friends, she's 15, and she is almost 4 months pregnant now.

[Comix]

I am against Teen Sex... I don't think anyone should be messing around with all sorts of people.

It spreads aids, and other diseases.

And it is almost like cheating on your wife... only... before you get married.

Comix

[Anthus]

Heres another thing... People don't have the same veiw on sex as they did about 20 years ago... Now, it is a casual thing... They say that 6 out of every 10 teens are sexually active... Thats 60%... I agree with LTM, if people would pick one person to share it with, then thats fine, but it isn't the case...

But if it was the case, then those people would still try to hide it from teens... Its kind of funny... The more people try to hide, obfuscate, or get rid of things, the more they are wanted...

I still think that anybody should be allowed to have sex at any age... What do you think marriage is? Its a piece of paper that should say "Legalized prostitution"... How can it be wrong to solicit sex, but it is okay to have sex with people anyway? What is wrong with this world?! Hiding the natrual? At this rate, he won't be alowed to eat and drink without the risk of going to jail for thirty days...

[Mowzr]

Ok, great topic Tobias, literally. Here's my whole thought on the subject..

I really think you should be allowed to do it. I am homosexual, so I have alot of open-ness about sex and sexuality, except when it comes to beastiality or necrophelia, but that's just sick-minded. Either way, I don't think you should be able to give a law to lovers. Love is one of the most precious things on Earth, to me at least. I think it's something to be charished, and shouldn't be thrown around carelessly. Having a boyfriend, to me, would make me feel so much better about myself, and I'd be tons more happy. So I just keep sitting here hoping and wishing.

I'm a teen, 16, but I'm not a teen at the same time. I'm very mature, not to sound full of myself. I really think sex is a beautiful thing, not in a pornography manner, but something that's very deep and meaningful. But teens today just throw it around. I believe women should be allowed to be very open sexually, its their choice if they want to have sex with a different man everytime, but you can be tasteful about it and not trashy.

Not to say, though, that if I did have a boyfriend that I'd immediately have sex with him. I wouldn't want a guy like that, who'd just immediately go for the sex, I think relationships have way more to them. And besides that, I pay attention to the small things quite a bit. (I.e. holding hands, hugging). Sorry, I know its so cheesey but I just can't help it.

[Hero_of_Hyrule]

The problem with teen sex, is that they usually have sex...just to have it. It gives them plessure so they just do it...it has nothing to do with a serious relationship. Most teens do it just so they can "score". In this case, the girl is just used as an object. Also, there is always going to be the risk of transmitting a desease...and also the chance of the girl getting pregnant. Do you really want to risk having to pay hundreds of dollars every month for child support at the age of only 16 or 17? Yeah, there are condoms and there are pills. They work most of the time...but sometimes they don't. And if you do have a child...will you really be willing to take on the huge responsabilities of being the child's father? If not...the child will grow up without a father, or at least his real father. And if you want to take the "easy" way out and have an abortion done, the baby will have to pay for your mistakes with its own life. Ok, I won't go into the whole abortion thing.

I look at sex as something special that should be reserved for when you are married...there are just to many risks involved if you have it beforehand. Also, if you have sex once before you get married...that odds are you'll have it several more times. Then when you finally do get married, rather then sex being a special experiance that was saved for that "special someone", it will be something that you've already done many times and it won't be anything new or special. When I look at sex before marriage, I see many bad things about it...and hardly any good.

[Comix]

I completely agree with Hero_of_Hyrule. Well put.


Tobias Daboi - About the marriage thing. Marriage (in my opinion) is much more than a peice of paper. It is your partner for life.

I think you should save sex for when you are married because if you don't, there are two consiquences.

1) You might become a parent at a very, very young age.

and 2) You won't have a very trusting relationshipt with your wife or husband. This breaks the trust factor between a marriage, because if a person had Sex with another person, how can a wife or husband know they aren't cheating on them.


Get my point?

Comix

[Aaron]

The problem with teen sex, is that they usually have sex...just to have it. It gives them plessure so they just do it...it has nothing to do with a serious relationship. Most teens do it just so they can "score". In this case, the girl is just used as an object. Also, there is always going to be the risk of transmitting a desease...and also the chance of the girl getting pregnant. Do you really want to risk having to pay hundreds of dollars every month for child support at the age of only 16 or 17? Yeah, there are condoms and there are pills. They work most of the time...but sometimes they don't. And if you do have a child...will you really be willing to take on the huge responsabilities of being the child's father? If not...the child will grow up without a father, or at least his real father. And if you want to take the "easy" way out and have an abortion done, the baby will have to pay for your mistakes with its own life. Ok, I won't go into the whole abortion thing.

I look at sex as something special that should be reserved for when you are married...there are just to many risks involved if you have it beforehand. Also, if you have sex once before you get married...that odds are you'll have it several more times. Then when you finally do get married, rather then sex being a special experiance that was saved for that "special someone", it will be something that you've already done many times and it won't be anything new or special. When I look at sex before marriage, I see many bad things about it...and hardly any good.

Wow... that pretty much somes up what I was gonna say...

Yeah, I believe sex is something that should be reserved for marriage... and doing it just to do it... is just plain stupid. If you want to know some ricks involded...

READ THIS*by the way, that is hilarious

[Comix]

lol, I read that post by that guy blaster_master. I guess that sums up to another reason.

3) Your gf will hate you for the rest of your life... sometimes

Comix

[link3505]

I really think sex is a beautiful thing, not in a pornography manner, but something that's very deep and meaningful. But teens today just throw it around. I believe women should be allowed to be very open sexually, its their choice if they want to have sex with a different man everytime, but you can be tasteful about it and not trashy.

Not to say, though, that if I did have a boyfriend that I'd immediately have sex with him. I wouldn't want a guy like that, who'd just immediately go for the sex, I think relationships have way more to them. And besides that, I pay attention to the small things quite a bit. (I.e. holding hands, hugging). Sorry, I know its so cheesey but I just can't help it.

amen, Mowzr. amen

[Jaivaz]

It's Ironic that this came up while I was reading more of a certain person's essays.

Now... where to start. Let's start with the views of sex in America. It is well known that when it comes to marketing, sex sells. Why is this? Because it's taboo. Because it's forbidden. Because it's rumored to be "great" and because you're not normal if you don't have sex. This is the attitude of America. Sex sells, let's ****. Another reason is the way we raise our children and teenagers. They grow up on food full of hormones which cause them to become sexually active at a young age, such as girls being active at ages of 8 and 10, and then comes the way we teach sex. It's taboo but it's fun. It's bad but it sells. It's sinful but it's needed.

From the posts I've read, some of you think it's the availability of condoms and other birth control methods. I do not think this is the reason. The reason may be because we 1) Never teach our children how and why we should use birth control 2) We teach them that sex is immoral and sinful, yet then we tell them they need to do it or they're ugly people 3) We sell everything with sex.

When you're looking at that commercial on the TV, the mint one, are you thinking about how great it will feel to have "cool, refreshing" breath? No. You're thinking about how 'hot' and 'sexy' that girl looks. You're thinking about ****ing her. This is the power of brainwashing and hypnosis in power.

Then you have this inane attitude over fetishes and sexual differences. They give out two forms of sex that you 'should' use. When it comes to heterosexual sex, it's all ok. When it comes to homosexual sex, it's only bad if it's two guys. When you have someone who has different sexual preferences and fetishes, they are treated like criminals.

Peer pressure is another reason. This shouldn't even be a reason! We teach our children that they should be different.. Yet in the next breath that they should be the same! Jamie ****ed the baby-sitter yesterday?! **** I better do that too or else I'll be different! Nooo!

Another problem is the attitude on child birth and children in general. Ohhh they're so cute, ohh they're so special.. Let's pop that bubble, hmmm'K? They are not special. They are little "crotch critters" and that is IT. You may think that little fetus is a miracle, but he isn't. He's just the result of many years of no sexual education. Bottom line.

Now, with most of the reasons out, how can we prevent this from happening? More birth control methods. We are over-populated with idiots in America. I propose a few more methods of birth control.. one of which being Legalized Abortions. Spare me the crap about the relgious views and the bull**** of this child-mania the world has these days. You can't provide them with a good home? **** it, they're dead. Want to give them up to adoption? **** it, they're dead now.

Another option is castration. If a teenager wants to ruin our world so badly because of urges he could control with masturbation, then ****ing cut those balls of. I am sick and tired of more and more trailer-trash teenagers breeding and ruining our world. We need population control, we need euthanasia. Massive amounts of it too.

Masturbation is the more tame method of controlling this problem. If we can get over the stupid 'sin of Onan' then we can help our world. (In fact, many have come to find that Onan's sin was in fact just coitus interruptus!) By teaching our children that masturbation is an always available way to get rid of the sexual urges, then we can solve our problem.
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To sum it up, anybody stupid enough to have unprotected sex as a teenager deserves to have their sexual organs removed. Enough with the trailer-trash, teen-mother, cracker ****s. Kill them off if they want to ****ing hump so damned much.

Furthermore, sex is not special. It's just a way to have your stupidity continue walking the earth. Children are just the results of sex and are therefore not special. And remember America, you're all unique.. .. just like everyone else.

"I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."~Bill Hicks

Edited by Jaivaz, 24 June 2005 - 06:38 AM.