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Posted 31 January 2017 - 10:10 AM

I have to switch schools because I failed my test for biology. I don't want to switch schools next year. That happened to me once. I lost all of my friends when I switched schools and now it's gonna happen again soon. My mom is making my life filled with depression again. I can't lose my friends again. I don't want to switch schools. I don't want to...

#2 Nathaniel

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 10:42 AM

Did she give any reasons why you must switch schools other than failing your Biology test?  I'm thinking there is more to this than what you let on.  I highly doubt most parents would make someone switch schools simply for failing one test or even one class, but again, I don't know your mother.



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Posted 31 January 2017 - 10:46 AM

Did she give any reasons why you must switch schools other than failing your Biology test?  I'm thinking there is more to this than what you let on.  I highly doubt most parents would make someone switch schools simply for failing one test or even one class, but again, I don't know your mother.

Actually my biology teacher emailed my mom about failing my bio test (semester test) and this morning my mom told me, I have to change schools again.

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 04:31 PM

Soo I just looked up your age. You are 14. Maybe there are good reasons you don't understand yet. Or complicated reasons she doesn't want to discuss with you. Maybe because she wants to avoid useless discussions as the situation is bad enough as it is. Or she doesn't want to talk to you about things that could hurt you. Teenage life is not easy after all.

You could try to question why you failed. Could there be a connection between ZC and you failing? In my case the last two weeks of ZC are clearly based on a depression and stress from a test that is coming up. Maybe you could get your mother to change her opinion if you concentrate more on school and show her your dedication. It is better to do so as early as possible anyway, I never did so in school and now, twice as old as you, I want to finally change my way of doing things but it is difficult to overcome old habits.

Also, maybe your mom is just not as great as you think. No person is perfect and you shouldn't doubt your parents easily, that will only hurt them. But there are parents that do things wrong. I had a friend in kindergarden and grade school (not sure if that is the correct term, I am german), her mother dedicated herself (beside work) on supporting the growth and education of her two daughters, in many ways this can be called good, others can only dream of such caring parents. Downside is that the mother was rather strict with the intention to protect her from bad influences like too much games or tv and I am pretty sure she wasn't allowed to go to drinking parties later. Later my sister worked in a kindergarden and met her there. It seems the overprotection resulted in a limited growth personality-wise, she had zero confidence and was obviously not used to decide things for herself.

What I want to say here I find it rather harsh to let you switch schools because of a failed grade, but either your mother has good reasons to do so and you can't change the situation or she has reasons it is worth to argue about, but in that case you really need to give her a reason to listen to you
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Posted 21 February 2017 - 10:24 AM

Remember my topic about me switching schools? About that, I'm nervous. Apparently all of my friends that I haven't seen in a long time are there. But I'm also afraid that my enemies are there as well that used to beat me up for the past 7 years. I'm not sure how they are gonna react and I hope my enemies changed about themselves being mean into sweet and kind people. But if that doesn't happen...gonna have to survive 3 more years.   


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Posted 21 February 2017 - 02:12 PM

Remember my topic about me switching schools? About that, I'm nervous. Apparently all of my friends that I haven't seen in a long time are there. But I'm also afraid that my enemies are there as well that used to beat me up for the past 7 years. I'm not sure how they are gonna react and I hope my enemies changed about themselves being mean into sweet and kind people. But if that doesn't happen...gonna have to survive 3 more years.   

 

so many kids changed school ? well, the fact  you found friends is a good thing, if you stay in group, is less probable that some foes will attack you.

I don't think a mean guy may become "sweet and kind" but i hope they at least become less...nasty.

The thing that stun me is that "they beat you for 7 years", but damn you are 14 so when they start bully you was just 7, they was already such b......s?



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Posted 21 February 2017 - 02:19 PM

I haven't seen them almost 2 years. Some still can be rude.



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Posted 21 February 2017 - 04:24 PM

I'm sorry you get bullied. I got picked on nonstop in elementary and middle school, but my highschool was actually really cool. I wish you the best. Don't be afraid to get those guys in trouble if they give you shit. You have the right to not be bullied and people will help you.

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Posted 22 February 2017 - 10:16 AM

They bully me because I'm the weak one

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Posted 22 February 2017 - 11:52 AM

*if you want to say something but know that it doesn't help*

On another point, I agree with former posts that people tend to get less annoying as older they get. High school was a lot better for me than middle school and middle school was also a bit better than elementary school. At least as far as I remember ;) I can at least say for sure that high school was a lot better and then again at college people were so nice compared to school time.
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Posted 23 February 2017 - 12:20 PM

They bully me because I'm the weak one

 

Corbin,

 

At this point in your life, it is extremely important that you focus on becoming a good person. It sounds like life is complicated for you, but keep your head up and do the best you can to improve yourself each day however you can. The people that tend to bully or be negative have the wrong focus. No one grows from negativity. Instead, practice compassion, empathy and courage. I very much appreciate that you can share your feelings with us here, and if this forum is a good outlet for you, we're happy to listen. Good luck! I wish you the best :)

 

~pnw


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Posted 23 February 2017 - 01:28 PM

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Posted 23 February 2017 - 03:21 PM

Spit in their food at lunch.
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