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#1 Item

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 12:15 PM

I just have a question for you guys. 

 

Do you think, I'm hard to understand? Like whenever I type in something, you think ((maybe)) and say "Wow this kid Item is a liar" Or "What is Item even talking about?" No one understands me, not even my best friends, not even my girlfriend. Look, I may say stuff that is a lie, but its true. People get mad for what I say on the internet. I try my best to make people laugh and smile, but all I get is confusion and laughter of people bullying me calling me a freak. I just can't change it, its who I am. I'm just a idiot who is hard to understand...Am I hard to understand, here on PureZC? Am I?

 

PS: I love everyone here at PureZC. You make me laugh everyday, but I don't make you laugh or smile. I love you all.


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#2 Nathaniel

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 01:34 PM

I can't speak for others, but I don't think I have any difficulty understanding you, after seeing several topics you have posted in.  However, I do think that you sometimes have difficulty understanding yourself or the gravity of situations that you might create, and might therefore be misguided at times.  That is somewhat natural when you're still young, but learning from bad experiences and not repeating the same mistakes a lot is also a major part of growing up.

 

While I am not one to accuse you of being a liar, since I have no proof to back up such a claim, some things you do say seem overly dramatic.  Now if you were one to tell lies just to gain attention to yourself, you would be entering pathological liar territory, and I hope that isn't the case, because that's a very unhealthy path to go down.  But to a lesser extent, there are also exaggerated truths, also for the sake of adding attention, and not in a positive sort of way.  You mention getting bullied, yet you yourself mentioned engaging in similar behavior.  This is hypocritical, as you are choosing to take a low road instead of a high one, whether it is to fit in with certain groups of people or not.  It's not unusual for the bullied to also be bullies.  If you don't listen or remember much of what other people say, I hope you can remember this, as you lilkely won't regret it later:

 

The best revenge is living well.

 

Try to focus mostly on things that make you happy, that isn't clearly at the expense of others.  If you have a certain talent or hobby, focus a lot on those sorts of things.  If that changes over time, which is quite common, that's fine too.  Interests can change, as people change.


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#3 Moosh

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 03:23 PM

While I'm not usually confused by what you say, I am sometimes confused by why. It's not all that uncommon for new members to post a stream of consciousness of whatever comes out the top of their heads, so you'd hardly be the first. Assuming you stick around, most people tend to find their place eventually. If people don't get where you're coming from every time, don't worry about it. But also try to take into consideration if what you're posting contributes something meaningful and constructive to the conversation.


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#4 Item

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 03:44 PM

Its just so hard to talk to people on the internet.

#5 Lüt

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 04:15 PM

Look, I may say stuff that is a lie, but its true.

I was going to answer "no," but then you posted this.


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#6 Anthus

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 04:21 PM

I think you might be over thinking it. There are two types of people on the internet. Those who take nothing seriously, and those who take everything seriously. You're right, it can be hard talking to people on the internet.
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#7 Dark Ice Dragon

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 04:46 PM

Sometimes is true that is not easy chat whit peoples, but i must say this community is quite understandingly

All persons  have they eccentricities, is normal, but try to understand us too, don't close it whit "is hard to talk to people in internet"

 

 

 

 

 

 

  


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#8 Naru

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 05:25 PM

So far there were a few things you said or did that I seriously dislike. And all of these things were in some way connected to this meme site you mentioned multiple times. If you ask me that dumb site keeps you down. From my personal experience I guess that site gives you some things you desire, the feeling to be a part of something; companionship; a place where others tell you about them and where you can tell others about you. To the point where you feel like this meme site keeps you alive. I had or have similar things, dumb stuff that became meaningless in the short time in my life I was happy for once. But I got back to it when my life got worse again and I needed a diversion from all the stuff going on.

I obviously didn't get out of this damn circle yet. So not much advise I can give you in that regard. But how incredible often you mention this meme site speaks for itself, your life seems to be totally occupied by it. I don't know what else you could do to fill the emptiness you try to fill with this meme site, but if possible you should just make a clean cut and leave that site behind. It is not healthy to you. And I doubt that your buddies on that site can be considered true friends.

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Posted 20 March 2017 - 05:29 PM

I think you might be over thinking it. There are two types of people on the internet. Those who take nothing seriously, and those who take everything seriously. You're right, it can be hard talking to people on the internet.


I'm somewhere in between that. I'm not sure if anyone understands half the nonsense I say sometimes in chat. (Green Dinosaur Endorphins O_o) I guess there's not much to understand with random... At least no one here has thrown rotten fruit at you. (Boo! Hiss! Get off the stage!)
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